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Why It’s So Hard to Make Changes (and How the Powder Day Mindset Can Help)

November 28, 20244 min read

Why It’s So Hard to Make Changes (and How the Powder Day Mindset Can Help)

The Challenge: Negative and Repetitive Thinking

Have you ever set out to make a significant change—only to find yourself back in the same old habits, wondering why breaking free is so hard? The answer might lie in your brain. Studies show that 80% of our thoughts are negative, and 95% of them are repetitive (source: National Science Foundation). This mental loop is our brain’s way of protecting us from uncertainty and conserving energy, but it also keeps us stuck, preventing the new habits and breakthroughs we crave.

Making change requires disrupting this cycle, but many traditional methods—like taking a vacation or attending a weekend seminar—are costly and time-intensive. Worse, the effects of these approaches often fade once we return to our routines.

The good news? There’s a way to break through this mental fog without upending your life. You don’t need a sabbatical or an expensive retreat; you need a daily system that shifts your thinking, inspires action, and builds momentum for lasting change.


The Solution: A System That Works With Your Brain

The Powder Day Mindset (PDM) is a simple, repeatable system designed to disrupt negative, repetitive thoughts and move you toward your goals. It works because it’s:

  • Accessible: You can use it daily without extra time, money, or resources.

  • Action-Oriented: Each step is designed to help you think differently and act in alignment with your values.

  • Sustainable: By celebrating small wins and aligning with your core values, you build momentum far beyond a weekend seminar.

Here’s how it works:


How the Powder Day Mindset Disrupts Negative Thinking and Promotes Action

  1. Celebrate Your Efforts:
    Instead of focusing on what’s not working, start by recognizing what is. Celebration disrupts negative loops and helps you focus on progress, not problems. Research shows that celebrating small wins builds confidence and increases motivation (source: Teresa Amabile, Harvard Business School).

  2. Declare Your Goals:
    Clearly define your goals. This will cut through mental clutter and give your brain a clear direction. A well-defined goal is like a mental compass—it keeps you moving forward.

  3. Explore What’s Working and What’s Not:
    Curiosity is key. Instead of judging yourself, get curious about your habits. What’s helping you? What’s holding you back? This step builds self-awareness, which is essential for change.

  4. Create a Values-Based Plan:
    Align your actions with your core values. When your efforts reflect what truly matters to you, you're more likely to follow through. This step keeps you grounded and inspired.

  5. Take Action:
    Small, value-driven steps disrupt negative patterns and build momentum. Action is the antidote to overthinking.

As you take action, you have more to celebrate. Each repetition increases your innovation, motivation, and confidence, making change much more manageable.


Turning Negative Self-Talk Into Fuel for Growth

Here’s the surprising truth: the power of the Powder Day Mindset isn’t about silencing your negative self-talk—it’s about harnessing it as fuel for growth.

We all have an endless supply of negative thoughts. Instead of seeing these thoughts as barriers, the PDM helps you use them as stepping stones. Whenever a negative thought arises, it becomes an opportunity to apply the five steps, realign with your values, and take action toward your goals.

Think about it: if 80% of your thoughts are negative and 95% are repetitive, that means you have a constant stream of reminders to stop, reflect, and grow. With the Powder Day Mindset, those thoughts shift from obstacles to signals that it’s time to celebrate progress, get curious, and take action.

This shift is powerful. Instead of feeling stuck or overwhelmed by your inner critic, you see each challenge as a chance to practice resilience, build momentum, and deepen your understanding of yourself. It’s a mindset that transforms every moment into an opportunity for growth—and since negative thoughts aren’t going anywhere, you have endless opportunities to grow.


Join the Powder Day Posse

If you’re ready to disrupt negative, repetitive thinking and start building a life you love, the Powder Day Posse is here for you.

The Posse is a community of like-minded individuals committed to using the Powder Day Mindset to tackle their goals and live courageously. Each week, we come together to celebrate wins, share insights, and support each other in taking action—all in a fun, energizing space, and grounded in core values.

Join the Powder Day Posse today and start fueling your growth with every thought. Click here to join!

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Joey Chandler

I love talking about who we are and how we can bring more of the to our lives and the world.

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