Having fun and staying detached in sales

Embracing Fun and Detachment in Sales

May 29, 20243 min read

Have you ever watched children play a game? They're fully engaged, enjoying the moment, yet remarkably detached from the outcome. This blend of enthusiasm and detachment is refreshing and enlightening, especially when applied to the sales process. For business owners and entrepreneurs, infusing fun and staying emotionally unattached to outcomes can transform your sales approach, making every interaction more enjoyable and less burdensome.

Understanding Your Core Process

At its essence, a core process is a distinct set of steps you naturally follow to achieve results rooted in your unique values and operational methods. It's about knowing how you work best—not just what you do but how you do it—which can make your sales efforts feel more like a playful game and less like a chore.

The Power of Fun and Detachment in Sales

Incorporating fun into your sales process and staying detached from the immediate results can revolutionize your approach. When you understand and utilize your core process, you align your actions with your natural strengths and preferences, making the process more enjoyable and engaging. This alignment boosts your energy and allows you to handle rejections (the inevitable "no's") with grace and ease.

Renowned business thinker and author Daniel H. Pink notes, "The best salespeople are not those who are most attached to the outcome but those who, like artists, enjoy the process itself and the act of creating." This perspective shifts the focus from the stress of securing a sale to the joy of interaction and offering value.

Risks of Ignoring Your Core Process

Neglecting to integrate your core process into your sales strategy can lead to several pitfalls:

  • Loss of Enjoyment: Sales can quickly become a draining task rather than an enjoyable challenge.

  • Burnout from Attachment: Being overly attached to each sale's outcome can lead to frustration and burnout when results don't meet expectations.

  • Decreased Resilience: Without the buffer of detachment, every rejection may hit harder, decreasing overall resilience and motivation.

Sara Blakely, founder of Spanx and a champion of innovative entrepreneurial practices, perfectly encapsulates this sentiment: "You've got to embrace what you don't know, be willing to fail, and laugh at yourself. If you do that, you've got a winning formula."

Benefits of a Core Process-Centered Sales Strategy

When your sales strategy is built around your core process, staying unattached and having fun is easier. Here’s how:

  • Stress Reduction: Understanding your process helps mitigate stress because you know what to expect from yourself and can adjust your efforts fluidly.

  • Increased Creativity: Being unattached to the outcome frees up mental space for creativity, allowing for more innovative approaches to customer interactions.

  • Enhanced Adaptability: Fun makes you more adaptable and open to experimenting with new tactics without fear of failure.

Conclusion

Just like playing a game, if you approach sales with a sense of fun and an unattached mindset, you are more likely to enjoy the process and continue improving without the pressure of every sale's outcome weighing you down. Your core process isn't just a pathway to results; it's a strategy for more joyful and effective selling.

Embrace the principles of play and detachment in your sales strategy to transform pressure into pleasure and turn every interaction into an opportunity for growth and enjoyment. By doing so, you ensure that your sales efforts are successful but also sustainable and fulfilling.

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Joey Chandler

I love talking about who we are and how we can bring more of the to our lives and the world.

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